The Joy of Giving on Purim

Purim is a time for celebration, dressing up in costumes, and feasting with friends and family.

But the Jewish holiday has a deeper meaning beyond the parties and festivities. One of Purim’s central mitzvot is giving gifts to one another, known as “mishloach manot.”

The Talmud teaches that the mitzvah of mishloach manot is a way to bring joy and happiness to others. Sharing our bounty with friends and family spreads positivity and love within our Jewish community. The act of giving gifts is also a way to foster relationships and strengthen the bonds between friends and family.

Mishloach manot can be simple and inexpensive. Simple, homemade treats or a fresh fruit basket can be as meaningful as a fancy gift basket. The important thing is the gift’s intention and the joy it brings to the recipient.

In addition to giving gifts to one another, Purim also requires us to give to those in need, known as “matanot la’evyonim.” This mitzvah reminds us that even in times of celebration and joy, we must never forget those less fortunate. By giving to the poor, we are fulfilling the commandment to love our neighbor as ourselves and demonstrating compassion and generosity in our faith’s heart.

The mitzvah of matanot la’evyonim

It also serves as a way to bridge the gap between the rich and the poor. By giving to those in need, we acknowledge that we are all part of the same community and have a responsibility to care for one another. This act of giving can help to break down the barriers that divide us and bring us closer together.

The act of giving gifts on Purim

It is also a way to remember the miracle of Queen Esther and Mordechai. Just as Queen Esther and Mordechai gave of themselves to save the Jewish people, we too can give ourselves to bring others joy and happiness. By giving gifts, we are following in the footsteps of our heroes and fulfilling their legacy.

So how can we make the most of the mitzvah of giving gifts on Purim? Here are a few suggestions:

• Get Creative: Mishloach manot doesn’t have to be bland or generic. Get creative and develop a unique and thoughtful gift that will surely make the recipient smile.
• Get Involved: Consider volunteering at a local food bank or soup kitchen to help those in need. By giving your time and effort, you can make a difference in the lives of others and truly fulfill the spirit of the mitzvah of matanot la’evyonim.
• Get Your Children Involved: Teach your children the importance of giving and involve them in the process. Please encourage them to help you create mishloach manot or to participate in a Purim-themed charity event.
• Get in the Spirit: Celebrate Purim with joy and positivity, and let giving gifts reflect that joy.

In the spirit of giving

It’s important to consider who we give to and why. The Talmud tells us that giving gifts to friends and those in need is a mitzvah. On Purim, this mitzvah is particularly emphasized—however, the true joy of giving lies not in the act itself but in its intention. When we pass from the heart without expecting anything in return, we tap into a deep well of fulfillment and happiness.

Giving gifts on the Purim holiday is also a way of celebrating the triumph of good over evil, as recounted in the story of Esther. In the story, Esther, Persia’s Jewish queen, helps save her people from extermination. This act of bravery and selflessness is celebrated through giving gifts, food, and charity to one another.

But what if we only have a little to give in terms of time, resources, or money? The joy of giving on Purim is not limited to material gifts. It can also be expressed through acts of kindness and generosity. We can volunteer our time to help others or offer a kind word or deed. It’s the thought that counts, not the size of the gift.

So let us celebrate Purim with joy and generosity, remembering the true spirit of the holiday. Whether giving gifts, food, or our time, let’s do so with love and a commitment to improving the world. May this Purim bring happiness, fulfillment, and a deeper appreciation for the joy of giving to those around us.

What is the story of Purim?

The story of Purim is a Jewish holiday commemorating the Jewish people’s salvation from destruction in ancient Persia, as recorded in the biblical Book of Esther.

The story begins with King Ahasuerus, the ruler of the Persian Empire, throwing a lavish feast for his subjects. During the banquet, he summons his queen, Vashti, to appear before him and display her beauty to the guests. But Vashti refuses to obey king Ahasuerus’s command, and the enraged king deposes her and begins a search for a new queen.

Among all the young women brought before king Ahasuerus, one is Esther, a Jewish orphan raised by her cousin Mordecai. Esther wins the king’s favor and becomes his queen, keeping her Jewish identity a secret.

Meanwhile, the king’s advisor Haman becomes enraged at Mordecai, who refuses to bow down to him. Haman convinces the king to issue a decree to annihilate all the Jews in the empire on a specific date, chosen by casting lots (or “Purim” in Hebrew).

Mordecai learns of the plot and urges Esther to reveal her Jewish identity to the king and plead for her people’s salvation. Esther agrees, risking her life to approach the king without being summoned, and reveals Haman’s evil plan.

The king is outraged, orders Haman to be executed, and issues a new decree allowing the Jews to defend themselves against their attackers on the appointed day. The Jews successfully defended themselves against their enemies, and the day was celebrated as a day of joy and thanksgiving, which became known as Purim.

The holiday is observed on the 14th day of the Hebrew month of Adar, usually in late February or March. It is celebrated with reading the Book of Esther, festive meals, gift-giving, and other customs.